I have seen a lot of really great pics on Pinterest about cool things to buy Dad for Father’s Day this year. Beard oil, a badger hair brush to lather up shaving cream, tools and various and sundry things made from leather.  However, I think the thing that Dad wants most can’t be bought in any catalog or store. He doesn’t really want another tie or another set of tools. Okay, he may want a new putter or has his eye on the latest technological gadget, but I think the thing that dad really wants this year for Father’s Day is simple.



Appreciation – Dad doesn’t mind working hard all week providing for the family. Sure, he probably dreams of the day he retires, but a real father loves to provide for his family. In fact, Proverbs says A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children’s children. Instead of going to the hardware store and looking for that perfect gift to buy Dad, may I suggest that what he really wants is to be appreciated? Tell him that you are thankful for his provision for your family, and for working hard to take care of you! He wants to feel appreciated, so tell him that he is doing a great job and that you are thankful for all he does for you.


Respect – Men desire to be respected by both their wives and their children.  You can’t put a pricetag on honoring dad, and it means the world to a man to know that he is respected by his family. Value his advice and wisdom and listen to him. Esteem him, admire him, and revere him. Hold dad in high regard and let him know how you feel. Your words of respect can be life changing to a dad.

Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God commanded you, that your days may be long, and that it may go well with you in the land that the LORD your God is giving you. – Deuteronomy 5:16



Love – Finally, love him. Shower him with words of affirmation and kindness. Write him a note, make him a banner, or spend time with him doing the things that he enjoys doing. Make dad feel special and feel loved by making his favorite meal or taking him to his favorite restaurant for dinner.

Whatever you do this year for Father’s day whether you make or buy dad something, or you spend quality time together, just be sure to make sure he knows that he is loved, appreciated and respected.


Posted by Misty Phillip

By His Grace: Seek Jesus, Study the Word, Grow in Grace Bible Study Author, Christian Lifestyle Blogger, & Speaker www.MistyPhillip.com


  1. I know for a fact this so is true. I’ve had this discussion with my husband on more than one occasion and I’ve discovered these are really his greatest desires. So much more desired than fine gifts!


    1. Thank you so much! Lureta, that is so good to hear.


  2. This is so true, Misty. The poor guy can only wear so many ties! I know for my husband, providing for the family is HUGE and any appreciation shown in that regard is music to his ears! Thanks for the timely reminder… stopping by from #MomentsofHope 🙂


    1. Laura, So true! Love that man well for Father’s day! Blessings, Misty


  3. welcomeheart 06/15/2017 at 1:10 pm

    Amen. He just wants to be acknowledged and appreciated and for my man-in-plaid – a funny card (got one on Etsy!!) thanks, misty, for this great reminder!


    1. Great! Knowing your husbands love language is so important! Hope the man in plaid loves his funny card 🙂 Blessings, Misty


  4. Misty- I think you’ve hit the nail on the head. Dads’ desire these gifts most of all.


    1. Julie, Thanks so much! Love on your sweet husband tomorrow! Blessings, Misty


  5. This was a sweet reminder Misty! I know one thing my husband wants besides these is a clean car and clean workspace! Lol. But love respect and appreciation are definitely number 1 for him too.


    1. Sue, My husband appreciates a clean car too! Love your man tomorrow and let him know how much you appreciate him! Be Blessed <3 Misty


  6. Nice reminders of what we truly need to give our fathers this weekend and everyday, Misty. Thanks and happy to share!


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